I know why economy sank...

After a series of activities, I have to come to understand why our nation is in much of the mess that we are in. I have concluded that one of the main reasons that the economy sank is simply because we are heartless in this country. We are so heartless that we neglected to think about the people that we threw under the bus. We are heartless because we forgot to think about the children whose parents would loose jobs in many of the industries that were mismanaged for years. We are heartless because we didn't think about what it would feel like to loose a home. We didn't stop to think about the money that we were stealing from innocent people. We don't even care about those who are less fortunate that we are or even those who are wrongfully convicted. We also neglect the fact that minorities and women still make less money than their white male counterparts--until we think about our own mothers, wives, and daughters. I guess things don't really hurt as much or even matter as much until it becomes personal for us. Simply put, we were only thinking about ourselves and the almighty dollar.

People began thinking solely about themselves and how to "get over" or how to make themselves rich or "ahead of the game" because many Americans are conditioned to think about how things are doing to work themselves. We think we are "self-made." Let's not even mention the homeless or abused. We neglect them and even ridiculing them because we somehow think it's their fault that they are in the predicament that they are in. We blame the victims of abuse often and not to mention the neglect of our children and the school system. It have become so infectious that we even belittle those who serve. We pay those in the helping professions less money often without paid overtime. We even laugh at those who help people without reservation. To me, that doesn't make much sense. I should know, I am a school teacher.

It truly saddens me when I read about people who embezzle billions and millions of dollars from innocent people or how when given an opportunity to do the right thing people still choose to go wrong. I recently attended a homeowner association meeting in my community and was floored to hear about the complaints that the members had. There were people complaining that the neighbors were changing the oil in their cars in front of their homes. They were talking about who should or shouldn't get assistance due to what the board believed. In the face of a crisis they were also insisting that they foreclose on the home of a man that hadn't paid his HOA fee since December...currently it's April. While I understand that that is simply the way it goes--it isn't right. Shouldn't we be helping each other? I guess this is one of the many reasons that our economy sank.

My biggest beef now is the fact that get angry when we think about where the tax money is going. We get angry when we hear that our tax dollars are going to help other people--i.e. the elderly, welfare recipiants, struggling homeowners, the mentally unstable...ANYONE who needs assistance. I get disgusted when I think about how selfish we have continued to be. We will continue to work in this cycle if we don't do better. I am not naive about this matter, but I do believe that our selfish nature is one of the roots of our evils. Yes, it will eventually get better, but I do wonder if there will be another wave of financial disaster such as this someday because people didn't learn from their own mistakes. This is why I believe the economy sank.

The Village and The Children...

I am a school teacher--an English teacher and a trained counselor. Today, I thought about everything that I believed in in terms of our school system here in the United States. I thought about all of the somewhat abusive slaps that I receive daily as a teacher. Whether it is directly from students, or irate, confused parents, or even people from the outside community, sometimes I feel very devalued and truly misunderstood. There have been numerous people to talk about how our school system is broken. We are indeed living in the twenty-first century with a school system that functions on twentieth century principles. That alone, is a disservice to children and those who seek to make a difference in the lives of children. My concern today was not simply in the system itself, but the people who are in the system--particularly the children and their parents. I have concluded several things:

1. As referenced by a wonderful speaker, yes, it may take a village to raise a child, but "if the village is crazy, the children will be too."
2. It's not necessarily the schools or the homes of these children and families that are broken, it's the people within those homes and schools that are broken.

We tend to blame music, television, and many of us claim to be "products of our environments," but when is someone going to wake up and notice the fact that people are hurting people. It is true that hurt people hurt people, but do we notice what our actions are doing to those in our environments. No one ever thinks about the people behind those startling statistics---people from abusive homes, fatherless or motherless children, children with an incarcerated parent--no one thinks about what happens when those people grow up or possible what happens to them on a daily basis. Those same children arrive in classrooms across the country daily. Yes, we expect them to perform and yes, many believe that our standards are sub par, but have we really considered the emotional aspect of education. We have many students who are emotionally disturb that don't qualify for services simply because they didn't test as so. Simply put, schools are focusing more on standards and accountability than educating the children holistically. Today, it's more about funding per child and being politically correct than it is education. But somehow many politicians say that our teachers aren't doing enough and we are failing children. Yes, we are underpaid, but many simply don't understand education.

What happens to children who grow up with fathers when they go on to have their own children? What happens to those students who have been abused when they grow up? These same people become your bosses, parents, employees, etc. No wonder we have so much corruption and abuse--it literally begins with the children. This is what shows up to us each day. Yes, there are some teachers that do the wrong thing, but I believe the real problem lies in the question of what are we doing to help our children---truly? Our villages are indeed messed up. We really need to address the matters of the home. How do we make homes safe? How do we educate parents? Parents are often as confused as the children, especially at different stages of a child's life. How do we make school relevant, yet rigorous? Not everyone wants to go to college? How do you help a overworked, undervalued teacher cope with the personal stress and hurt that he or she sees with students each day? Many children don't exhibit many manners, many are rude, and hooked to technology. It's as though they forget about the human side of communication--some may even do it on purpose. We need to find ways to help us be humans again. That's not too much to ask--is it? So my thought in all of this is, maybe we should look at ourselves before we start blaming the school systems or the images we see on screen or in radio. Just a suggestion...

Keeper of the Dream

Maya Angelou said it best when she noted that we are "phenomenal" and indeed "the dream and the hope of the slave." Today is Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day and I have never been more proud to not only be female, but a young, African American. Today is also the day before we inaugurate the first African-American man as president in American history. As I watched the presidential campaign, I was amazed at the dilligence, eloquence, and not to mention the history that was embodied in the entire process of the campaign. There have been African-Americans and women to run for president before, but this was the first time in history that an African-American and a woman ran for the presidency and was taken seriously. It is truly a blessing to have lived to see both of these extrodinary events take place.

One thing that I found interesting, however was the tenacity, eloquence, and integrity of Barack Obama. I am inspired by the way that he handled things. I have often struggled with being the type of person that I am. It can be difficult to hold on to your integrity in a world that seeks to often steal, kill, and destroy, but I am impressed at the way that he handles things, particularly when adversaries spoke blatant lies about him. He is living proof that taking "the high road" can yeild many benefits. It is an honor to know that I will have a leader that embodies what so many people, including myself, seek to have and achieve. He is living proof that you can indeed be intelligent and be "real" all at the same time. Being smart isn't a bad thing that only "white" people seek to be or are born with, intelligence is something that comes with work and the desire to aquire knowledge. It is also interesting to me that people who once labeled him as "not black enough" also look up to him as such a iconic figure and respect the huge undertaking that he is about to undergo.

As a teacher, I have the task of not only educating our young people, but also to counsel and uplift them. I have found it almost appauling that my students don't understand the magnitude of this election and why race matters in America. When I speak about how excited I am about this historic event and how proud I am as a black woman, the students have the audacity to get upset and say "why is it always about race, Ms. Brown? Why do we have to talk about this?" My response is, when you think about the fact that slaves built the White House and a black man designed the city of Washington, D.C., it is impressive that we now have a African-American president. It is also interesting that black people were not even allowed to go into the White House unless it was through the back door. I read the other day that there were fewer than 10 black Americans in history (before Obama) to go into the White House to dine or counsel with a U.S. president. Among of them were Frederick Douglass, Booker T. Washington, Mary McCloud- Bethune, Colin Powell, and Condelezza Rice. In 2009, I am almost embarrassed that this is a reality today in America. When I think about all the people who have died, have been jailed, enslaved, or abused in any fashion all because of their race, I know in my heart that race indeed matters and it is important to tell young people the meaning and magnitude of this. When I think about voting rights for women and African-Americans, racial profiling, newer hidden forms of racism I would be wrong if I didn't speak about how great this is. It is a priviledge to be a teacher at this point in my career and in history. Silence, in my case is not golden, it is indeed dangerous.

I'm not sure if I have given myself the opportunity of soaking all of this in, but I do know that I am more socially concious and racially proud. I agree with Michelle Obama when she said that for the first time I am proud of my country. There have been times that I have not felt African or American and I was okay with being called simply, black or even use the word "nigger" from time to time, but now I have a different kind of awareness. I see that there is a place somewhere in America for me too. It is important that we encourage ourselves to take personal responsibility and to hope that things will indeed be better than they are currently. I know that President Obama isn't God and that change isn't something that comes overnight, but I do know that he has given people something to be hopeful for. If I've never known that all things are possible--I know now. Although the struggle continues, "I am the dream."

The American Economic Crunch

It is true that economy is in shambles and much of it has to do with the powers that be and/or real estate personnel's greed to have more. I guess as a whole, it is everyone's need for more. I take offense, however when I watch the news and report after report blames the consumer. Yes, it is true that many people bought homes without collateral or in the words of one report, "these people may never have the money to pay off the loans they have." The thing that I take offense to is that because the price of homes was inflated at the time of purchase for most people during the last 2 years, in order to make a down payment on a home, many people would've had to come up with at least $10,000 or more for a down payment. Arguably so, most people would not be able to ever own homes if there was a need for that much money for a down payment. This makes me sad because I think that it is natural to want better things for your family and in that spirit, most people want the American Dream. Why should the consumer be scolded and put down because many people were simply trying to make a better life and fell victim to poor practices in real estate. Maybe if this were not such a wide spread practice, it may not be such a big, bad problem here is the United States. I just feel weird as a homeowner because I bought a home so that I can leave a legacy for my children and help build a foundation for myself and my husband. Now my home is worth so much less than I bought it. It is incredibly sad when I think about the funds that I lost in this endevour. I am sad when I watch the news and hear those hurtful words from reporters. It is almost as if in some hidden way that homeownership or anything of that nature is solely for the haves and not necessarily for the have nots. Each day that I watch this presidential campaign, I get annoyed at the fact that John McCain reminds me of the fact that in many ways the America that we have always known has been largely in favor of the haves and those who married into a family of the haves, so to speak. It is almost interesting that one can venture to say that it is in many ways racist, classist, and mildly sexist in this very fashion because it is very difficult for one to "come up" in America under regular circumstances. Whether it is due to mandatory minimum jail sentences, predatory lending practices, insufficient healthcare, unemployment, or simply being black/minority, and even gay, lesbian, or transgendered, many "ordinary" Americans are having a very difficult time surviving this economy. It makes me sad that there weren't laws in place to prosecute these people who willfully hoodwinked people. There would have been a law to lock up Ray-Ray for drug possession, Ronald "Mr. Biggs" Isley for tax evasion, and Martha Stewart for taking bribes and bailing out of the stock market--why not business heads who messed with the lives of others so that they, themselves, could enjoy $150,000 salaries and lavish benefits. I believe that the American dream is turing into something much like an American nightmare. I am embarassed by our governments behavior and their priorities. I understand that this is a huge and arduous undertaking, but I also have watched as they have neglected those of us who are here at home. International diplomacy has become more important than education and healthcare here in America! This is senseless.

As an English teacher and simply an educated woman, I watch how many of my students come to me with the minimum and their parents accept the minimum from them. It has become increasingly sad and not to mention exhausting as the years go by. As an educated woman, I see how it is definately well merited that a student from a low socio-economic background can go to college virtually for free, but a person with minimal standardized test scores whose parents have earned a college education may end up paying thousands of dollars on student loans. It's almost that it is "punishment" for not being "impovished." I totally understand this however. I just simply think that it is very interesting. In the end of all of this, I sincerely hope that the market recovers itself and that we finally see an America that works for the "little people." Those of us who don't come from money or work hard for each and everything that we own, should be able to have a piece of the American pie without being questioned or manipulated. I just find this whole thing disturbing, yet interesting.